I went from being a PEOPLE-PLEASING codependent to confidently loving myself and my life!

 I help perfectionists, people-pleasers, and overcommitters set boundaries and learn to advocate for themselves.

I'm Jeanie.

Hey THERE!

This is the story of how I went from persistent overwhelm &
not-enoughness to loving myself and being my biggest advocate!

I see your struggle! 

I can get you connected to your self-worth, self-love, and cultivate more confidence so you stop people-pleasing and absolutely love the life you’ve created!

I consumed personal & spiritual development resources like a starved child but it wasn’t until my sister found recovery from addiction before I identified the source of my unstable happiness - CODEPENDENCY. I’d managed to avoid addiction but so many aspects of codependency had manifested in my life under the guise of being a good person.  

Since this revelation, I’ve become crystal clear on my values and selective with what I agree to. I now have a sense of freedom I didn’t think was possible. I’ve completely redefined what it means to be a good person (hint: it has nothing to do with pleasing others). 

Boundary setting, personal accountability, true forgiveness, and trusting my intuition were once acts of courage but now this is simply how I operate…with confidence and without second-guessing. I actually FEEL GOOD about advocating for myself and love who I am today!

I spent most of my life trying to do what I thought made me a good person and carefully straddle the tension of being everything to everyone. Coming from a small town where the local lifestyles swung drastically between religion & addiction, it was inevitable that my inner voice would become snuffed out by fear, shame, and guilt.

As substance abuse & oppressive use of the Gospel divided my family and friends, I found myself either trying to save people or avoiding situations hoping for the best. I had my own life, but I was always caught up in what I thought was helping others. I truly believed that what made me lovable and accepted was always being who someone needed me to be. 

I wasn’t even sure what I truly desired for my own life and thought that putting my needs above anyone else’s made me selfish. I lived on the precipice of overwhelm and not-enoughness.

Helping people SEE into their own souls where often their mind is blocking them

Teaching people how to CELEBRATE their successes in non-traditional ways

Proponent of 12 step recovery programs - the only group therapy that's a $1 donation 

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Love of travel & interest in learning about diverse cultures 

What I’m known for:

— maya angelou

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

words i live by

tv show

Schitt's creek

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My fur baby

favorite accessory

my helmet

a night out

live music

my hubby

The love of my life, Rob

a night out

live music

MOTORCYCLE ADVENTURES

NEW MEXICO

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travel

I'm a little crazy about...

I love kids! I taught sewing to boys and girls in an after-school program, it is still one of my favorite things I've ever done. 

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My first job was working as a ranch hand on my uncle's cattle ranch. 

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During my 20's I fronted an all-girl punk rock band and even toured!

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